At the moment, I am finding it a particularly hard task to stay positive. I am constantly dragging myself down over tiny little things, things that previously I wouldn't have batted an eyelid at! One reason for this, I think, is probably stress. Another that I am often in my own little world with my favourite fictional characters, that when I do return to Planet Earth, I have to admit its a bit of a disappointment. Many other teenage fangirls will agree that our life is nowhere near as thrilling as Hazel's, Tris', Charlie's, Harry's or Miles' life. The rest of the time I undermine my value, or so so many have recently told me, never thinking I'm good enough at whatever it is that I'm doing. I'm sure many other people feel this way too.
Today, my English teacher reminded me of one of my favourite quotes of all times, which made me feel better. When Christopher Robin said to Pooh:
“Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”
This, in my opinion, is an important message to always have stored in your heart. Sometimes in life people, whether friends or enemies will need to be reminded of this, and even yourself. There are some days in life, when everything is going against us and we really need people to reassure us of who we are and what we are capable of. Always remember, as Henry Ford identified:
“When everything seem to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it ....”
Never let what you can't do pull you down; instead what you can do push you up. Keep moving forward in life, one step at a time, and sometime you will find something which will make you truly smile. I will try to remember this and put a skip in my step next time I walk into somewhere I don't want to be and smile at the people I don't want to see, as at the end of the day I can slip into my fictional world slightly happier than the previous nights. And I hope you do the same.
L x